Luke 6:37 “Judge
not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned;
forgive, and you will be forgiven”
After my post about
legalism, I would now like to take this time to discuss the actions of
judgement. One habit all of us humans
have is the act of judging, be it good or bad.
We judge tend others based on their actions, beliefs, religion, culture,
race, appearances, habits, hobbies etc.
Judging is a natural human instinct that we all act on in our daily
every day life. Many people think passing judgement is a negative habit to have
and will go out of their way to prove that their not judgemental, feeling it’s
not their place to judge anything anyone else does no matter what it is with the
exception of breaking the law. After
all, we live in free country and have the basic individual rights to live our
own lives and make our own choices good or bad.
To be judgemen-tal is considered closed-minded and ignorant and people
strive to be open-minded and more tolerant and accepting which is the right way
we all should be.
First, I want to point
out that believe no matter what many people claim, we are all too an extent a
little judgmental and it’s nothing wrong with that. I believe it’s okay some-times pass jugement
on others based on an action, conduct, morals and behavior. When someone commits a crime, inflicts harms
another person, abuses a child, the logical reaction is to pass judgement on
their actions by condemning them cruel and immoral. Judging another isn’t perceived for only
negative light as some-times we judge others on a positive light. When someone commits a heroic action and
saves another person’s life, comes to the aid of a person in need when no one
else would we praise that person and commend them. In the court system, it’s the job of the
judge to pass judgement after hearing all the arguments and getting all the
facts they need then makes ruling based on his/her knowledge.
The problem is not passing judgement as a
whole since all of us has and will do that from time to time. The real problem is when we become too
judgmental to the point we’re too quick to judge others based condescension,
lack of knowledge of the whole facts, close-minded-ness and hypocrisy. As humans, sometimes we can’t help but judge other
people and their lives and
circumstances just because it’s so
easy to in order to feel morally superior even though we may
no little about their lives or their situations or don’t try understand what is like to be in their
position. There is an old saying “before
you criticize someone, you should walk in mile in
their shoes, that way when you criticize them, you’re a mile away and have
their shoes. For Christians, one the
many flaws they have, is the tendency to be too judgemental. The habit of overly judging and analyzing
aspects of other’s lives from their habits, hobbies, choices and alternative
lifestyles that don’t meet their preference or ideal way of doing. This often leads to becoming self-righteous,
holier-than-thou and sanctimonious. It’s
can be so easy to judge and condemn others to feel superior, hide our own flaws
or be blind to them because we are all so consumed with pointing fingers at
other people.
There is the verse Matthew
7:1-5 “Judge
not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment
you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure
you get. Why do you see the
speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your
own eye? Or how can you say to
your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when there is the log in
your own eye? You hypocrite, first
take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the
speck out of your brother's eye.” This simply means we shouldn’t get so caught up in
judging and pointing fingers at others while ignoring or being oblivious to our
own faults or mistakes. Instead, we need
to focus on ourselves more before we can focus on others or else we are just
hypocrites. Another verse confirms this
in Romans 2:1-3 “Therefore you have no excuse, O man,
every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn
yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things. Do
you suppose, O man—you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them
yourself—that you will escape the judgment of God?” Plenty of times, people tend not
practice what they preach. It happens
often in the Christian commun-ity from Christian and church leaders, church
members etc. Many hide their own sins
out of fear to show their weaknesses due to insecurity or the need to appear
better than they are and to cover these traits indulge in looking at other
people’s weak-nesses using it against them.
Often, Judgementalness comes out of ignorance, being closed-minded or
fear of what of what they don’t understand sometimes because of what is
different from them. This sometimes can
be prejudice which itself is some-times based on bigotry and hatred. In John 7: 25 “Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right
judgment.” In other words, we should
not judge simply based outward appearance, based on race, na-tionality,
handicap, disfigurement, how someone dresses but instead judge on based on
what’s inside their hearts and mind. If
people look beyond the outward appear-ances, they may see the truth of who that
person is and may be quite surprised what they find. Another problem many Christians have is the
tendency to be quick to judge those who don’t share their faith. Many constantly complain about the
ungodliness of the secular society write off those who share other faiths as
heathens. I read it plenty comments from
Christians complaining about the secular schools, colleges, club scenes or
condescend to those who don’t chose to live a secular lifestyle without any
religion in their lives. In this way, Christians can be so consumed with all
what is wrong in the secular society, that they ignore some of the sinfulness
and scandals that go on in the church. Paul even warned about this regarding the Corinth church in 1 Corinthians 5:12 “For
what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church
whom you are to judge?
As Christians, we should stop be so focused on
judging the secular society when there is sin inside the church. Instead, we
should be concerned about the sinners among fellow Christians and church
members. In this context, Paul is
stating that it is okay to judge as many Christians do stray against God’s will
and commit immoral sin such as adultery, addiction, any forms of abuse, look at
porn, become promiscuous etc. We
certainly shouldn’t overlook these negative traits in a misguided attempt to
appear non-judgemental. However, rather
than be too harsh and condemning, we should strive to help the sinner to flee
from their sins by repenting and encourage them to get help they need if
possible. We should then strive to show
mercy and forgiveness as Jesus did for all rather lord they sins over that
person especially if they are trying to change their ways and be better
people.
When it comes to judgment as
whole, it is not a black and white answer.
We should all strive not to be
too judgemental that leads to self-righteousness, over criticism and hypocrisy
yet we should judge with the right attitude and our hearts in the right place
that has a positive affect following Christ’s example.
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